Always remove your shoes and socks prior to entering a
temple, monastery or home in Bhutan. Long trousers or skirts and long sleeves
are the required attire when visiting religious sites. Photography is permitted
only outside such buildings.
Also be aware that it is considered rude to show the
bottom of your feet toward religious objects or people in general, which can
most easily be accomplished by sitting cross-legged.
Although not mandatory, it is the tradition among the
Bhutanese to leave a small donation when leaving a temple or monastery.
Handshaking as a greeting is not usual in Bhutan, though
in modern areas it is becoming more of a feature in daily life. Traditional
greeting takes the form of a bow with outstretched open hands palm upwards.
Never point at a person, or touch their heads. In general
the people in Bhutan are not used to being touched by strangers, so tapping,
hugging or putting your arm around someone is likely to regarded as a violation
and cause unintended offence.
It is a common gesture in many societies to
affectionately ruffle the hair of children, but the head is considered sacred
in Bhutanese society and such gestures will not have the intended effect. If you need to attract attention, motion with the palm of your hand.
Avoid political comment and criticism, particularly of
the monarchy.
Overt public displays of affection between couples is
frowned upon, particularly in traditional areas, and shows disrespect to the
native culture. Conservative dress, especially at religious sites, is
recommended in public areas.
Tipping for services in Bhutan is discouraged by the
Bhutanese government and is in general unnecessary, but will be accepted by
tour guides.
When dining in Bhutan, food is normally eaten by hand
using only the right hand, as the left hand is considered unclean. When dining
with locals, the host will ask the others to eat only after everyone has been
served and will not serve themselves until everyone else has begun eating.