Always remove your shoes, socks and hat and wear
conservative dress prior to entering a temple or home in Thailand. Also be
aware that it is considered rude to show the bottom of your feet toward your
host, which can most easily be accomplished by sitting cross-legged.
Never point at a person, or touch their heads. In general
the people of Thailand are not used to being touched by strangers, so tapping,
hugging or putting your arm around someone is likely to regarded as a violation
and cause unintended offence.
The standard greeting amongst Thais is not shake hands
but instead to use the Wai, raising the hands, palms and fingers placed
together in a manner similar to prayer, touching your body between your chest
and head, accompanied by a very slight bow.
If you need to attract attention, motion with the palm of
your hand. It is a common gesture in many societies to affectionately ruffle
the hair of children, but the head is considered sacred in Thai society and
such gestures will not have the intended effect.
Avoid political comment and criticism, and especially do
not make comment regarding the Royal family, which is a criminal offence.
Visitors to Thailand should be aware that it is highly
likely that they will witness attitudes towards animals which may distress, and
prepare themselves in advance to deal with these matters with calm and
sometimes considerable restraint.
Overt public displays of affection between couples is
frowned upon, particularly in traditional areas, and shows disrespect to the
native culture.
Tipping for services in Thailand is in general
unnecessary but will be accepted by Taxi drivers, tour guides, restaurant and
hotel staff.
When dining, the fork is used for prodding and
manipulating food on the plate but eating should be performed with the spoon.
Sticky rice is often eaten with the hand, particularly in the north, for which
the right hand only be used. Despite the instinct, you should never lick your
fingers afterwards.
It is not the practise in Thailand, especially for women,
to touch a monk, or even their robes.